“If you aren’t good at loving yourself, you will have a difficult time loving anyone, since you’ll resent the time and energy you give another person that you aren’t even giving to yourself.”
– Barbara De Angelis
Happy Mother’s Day.
Our mothers are our primary role models, and what they do we learn to do.
So, mothers I ask you very sweetly, please, please, please love your self first in order to give this love to your children. How can you give something you don’t have. This will prevent much stress that if not taken care of can later turn into fights, frustrations, and regrets and passed on to your children.
Isn’t there that moment when you need from your children have ( when all of their life you have given all your time and dedication) and in return you get “whatever mom” ” i am too busy” “I don’t want to” and then feel totally un-loved, un-appreciated… and why is that?? MOM’s it’s not that you have not done a great job, it’s that you expect things in return for this love, when you should take care of yourself first and love yourself completely so, when given this love you already feel loved. This means, you won’t expect something in return and there will be no deception or feeling of un-appreciation.
Mom’s you are our role models please, model us this beautiful tradition of loving ourselves and you will forever impact our life. This means no one can ever hurt us, because we will feel full of love and whatever comes along it’s extra and not needed to complete us. Since we are already complete.
Have a beautiful mother’s day with all your loved ones.
I send you love and harmony.
And don’t forget to smile because the universe loves you!