Sometimes we want to get ahead of the game in order to prevent certain outcomes. In reality we can’t always do this, and “IF” you control all of your outcomes are we really experiencing life?

Dr. Brene Brown explains how we can get so afraid of joy, and why do we do that. I can honestly say I have had this bad habit of being afraid of being too happy. But how did this idea creep in me, how did it take over my positive thinking, as I look back I can see where it came from and I want to let go. I forgive myself for believing that you can’t never be too happy or I am not deserving of this. Although, I am very grateful for this lessons, I learn to become aware and break away. I can now teach others to break away. As a chain of reaction maybe just by touching ONE person we could shift the energy of this beautiful planet, and make it shine, which is the real intention. To shine and thrive as a harmonious planet.

“If you aren’t …

“If you aren’t good at loving yourself, you will have a difficult time loving anyone, since you’ll resent the time and energy you give another person that you aren’t even giving to yourself.”

– Barbara De Angelis

Happy Mother’s Day.

Our mothers are our primary role models, and what they do we learn to do. 

So, mothers I ask you very sweetly, please, please, please love your self first in order to give this love to your children. How can you give something you don’t have. This will prevent much stress that  if not taken care of can later turn into fights, frustrations, and regrets and passed on  to your children. 

Isn’t there that moment when you need from your children  have ( when all of their life you have given all your time and dedication) and in return you get “whatever mom” ” i am too busy” “I don’t want to” and then feel totally un-loved, un-appreciated… and why is that?? MOM’s it’s not that you have not done a great job, it’s that you expect things in return for this love, when you should take care of yourself first and love yourself completely so, when given this love you already feel loved. This means, you won’t expect something in return and there will be no deception or feeling of un-appreciation. 

Mom’s you are our role models please, model us this beautiful tradition of loving ourselves and you will forever impact our life. This means no one can ever hurt us, because we will feel full of love and whatever comes along it’s extra and not needed to complete us. Since we are already complete. 


Have a beautiful mother’s day with all your loved ones. 

I send you love and harmony. 

And don’t forget to smile because the universe loves you! 


Mara Lee